[alanmcorcoran]

I know that, or I guess that, there is no way to know that a poster has directed his message at you specifically, but is there a way to add a "View new posts" type button that will show threads where you have been quoted, but have not replied?

A number of times I've been away for a day or so, and someone has left a post directed at me that has aged past the "new post" cutoff. At that point, I've pretty much missed it, never responded, and, well, it kind of looks like I'm intentionally ignoring them, which is possible, but not usually the case.

If people know you will be able to find posts they've quoted you, they would probably develop the habit of quoting something when responding to a particula post to send you a sort of semaphore...